TOO MUCH AT ONCE

It's hard to believe Alex and Kristina have been in the US for 1 year. On one hand, the time has gone quickly and on the other, we are still struggling with the same problems as we've had a year ago. Mainly with Kristina and her "How am I suppose to?" That's her way of trying to get out of her responsibilities or school work or just having her daily melt down. Sometimes I wish she didn't learn English. Being 13 and having an attitude is pretty tough.
Last week, Kristina began her period. Of course, when I asked the Russian translator to explain to her at least three different times, what was going to happen, Kristina said she already knew. We spoke about it again after she started and the tears began when I told her Aunt Flo was coming every month for a long long time. First she told me that was a lie. Then she told me she thought it was a one time deal. "But Kristina," I said, "I thought you already knew about this."
She kept the crying up and said. "I didn't know it came every month!" Heaven help us because we are in for some major PMS.
Since school started, Alex has been coming home almost everyday with all kinds of graduation packet information. With the cost of graduation pictures, class rings, rental of graduation cap and gown, graduation announcements, diploma frames, etc, etc, etc..... things can get overwhelming. Alex is all for getting his class ring but to the rest he says, "I'm going to get sick!"
Alex is quite entertaining. He has a great sense of humor. We really didn't expect that from him as he is very reserved. It is nice to see that he is very comfortable with us and can let his hair down. He asked me if there would be any 16 or older girls coming in October for the hosting program? He is willing to help with any translating (and not just for the girls) since he speaks both Ukrainian and Russian.
We decided the kids need to go to church and join the youth group. They usually sit in church and do not participate. We are hoping that the other youths and get them involved is church activities and they can make more friends. Most of the kids in our families are older and live in other states so not so many family members live locally. The youth group program starts in about a week so we will see how Alex and Kristina do.